You can use the sections below to go deeper, or jump using “On this page”.
Notice the pattern, not just the amount
Ask whether alcohol, drugs, medicines, gambling or another behaviour is becoming harder to control, taking more time or money, affecting health or relationships, or continuing despite consequences.
Write down what concerns you
Frequency, loss of control, consequences, cravings, secrecy, withdrawal symptoms or repeated failed attempts to change.
Check safety
If reducing alcohol or sedatives causes withdrawal symptoms, seek medical advice before stopping suddenly.
Choose support
You can speak to a GP, local addiction service or appropriate private clinician even if you are uncertain about diagnosis.
You do not need to prove that things are “bad enough” before asking for help.

